“Our
‘Post-’ Everything Culture”
Colossians 4:5-6
I. Introduction
This morning’s sermon will be our last sermon in what has been a
10 sermon series through the book of Colossians. We have
discovered many important aspects of what it means to be a passionate,
devoted follower of Jesus Christ by being a missional Christian.
Today’s sermon will explore the question, “How do we
present the gospel in a language that connects with a 21st Century
culture?
II. Exposition
So our study passage instructs us to “Be wise (be shrewd,
creative, and Christ-like) in the way you act toward outsiders (those
who are not yet devoted followers of Christ); and make the most of
every (kairos) opportunity.” We focused on this aspect of
being missional Christians last week.
Our passage goes on to say, “Let your conversation be always full
of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer
everyone.” Let’s explore this aspect of living
missionally this morning.
“Let your conversation be always full of grace.” Now
this principle applies to every conversation we have, but in the
context of this verse, the apostle Paul is primarily referring to the
conversations we have with non-Christians. When we engage in
conversation with those outside the Christian faith, we should do so
with words that are “full of grace.”
What is grace? Grace is God’s undeserved kindness and
unconditional love that does not deal with us according to our sin, but
according to our forgiveness and new identity in Christ.
So for us to live into this calling, we too must interact with those
outside the Christian faith, indeed with everyone, with God’s
undeserved kindness and unconditional love that does not define others
according to their sin, but according to God’s offered
forgiveness and new identity in Christ.
This perspective simply leaves zero tolerance in a Christian’s
heart for any judgmental attitude or an “us-versus-them”
mentality toward non-Christians or even nominal Christians no matter
how sinful their lifestyle or heretical their beliefs. It is not
our job to judge unbelievers or to change their behavior or
beliefs. That’s God’s job!
Our role is to look past their sin and false beliefs, and see that
person as to who they will be once Christ gets a hold of their life,
and then to pour grace into their life!
So our conversation, all our interactions, with those outside the
Christian faith, must be “full of grace,” and
“seasoned with salt.” Salt is used to
preserve from corruption. Our conversation then should help
whatever environment we are in to be preserved from moral and ethical
corruption.
For example, if we work or go to school in an environment full of dirty
jokes or grumbling and gossiping, or ethical violations small or big,
like calling in sick when you’re not, or taking home office
supplies (even paperclips), or using the company resources for personal
use without permission (like the copy machine or computer), or not
working to our full potential the full time we are at work, then we
should stand out in such an environment because we are the one who
refuses to engage in such behavior.
Salt is both a preservative, but also a flavor enhancer. So
seasoning with salt our conversation also includes speaking to the
needs of others, matching their questions with God’s answers, and
engaging in conversation that is lively, interesting, and
colorful! We cannot make the gospel appealing if we live boring,
or unnecessarily restricted, or legalistic, or arrogant lives.
So if we pull together everything we have learned so far from our
passage last week and today about how we are called to interact with
non-Christians, we get this picture.
We are to live in such a way that we maintain a God-perspective, a
kairos perspective of life. We do so by keeping in mind the big
picture that our lives on earth are short and meant to be lived for
God’s purposes not ours.
We live each day with eager anticipation of how God is going to use us
that day to be His hands extended to others for doing good and planting
the seeds of the gospel. We are always on the look out for these
kairos opportunities to partner with God, and then we respond in
Holy-Spirit empowered faith, love, and ability. We do so by
interacting with others in a manner that is full of grace and seasoned
with salt.
And we do so in a manner that “knows how to answer
everyone,” the last phrase in our study passage. Now this does
not mean that we should be able to answer every single question that
people may ask us about the Christian faith.
The tone and intent of the Greek here is for us to know how present the
gospel in a manner that addresses the questions that unbelievers are
asking. But we have to answer the questions that each
generation actually asks, not the questions we think they should be
asking!
There are two main sources of what provokes the questioning by
unbelievers about Christ. One, when we live in a manner that
we’ve been discussing these last five months of being missional
Christians, our counter-cultural, Christ-revealing, provocative in a
good way lifestyle, will provoke those outside the faith to inquire
about our faith.
- When we are living with a radically different worldview,
priorities, and lifestyle than the secular world…
- When we demonstrate God’s peace in the midst of trial,
God’s faith in the midst of doubt, God’s strength in the
midst of struggle…
- When we live with God’s joy without having to indulge in
addictive pleasures of this world for fun…
- When we live in a manner that demonstrates to others
God’s presence and kingdom power…
We will provoke transcendent curiously from unbelievers, and they will
be driven to ask us about the source of the overcoming power,
sustaining peace, and counter-cultural priorities in our life.
And then we respond, not with some intellectual apologetic, but with
our personal testimony of how Christ makes a difference in your life
today!
The other questions asked by unbelievers are those that arise out of
living life in whatever country and culture that person lives in.
In other words, each generation asks both the timeless, existential
questions that all humans ask, about the meaning of life, but also
unique questions driven by the particular dynamic of that
person’s culture. This means that the effective
proclamation of the gospel always involves discerning how to present
the unchanging content of the gospel in a language that speaks anew to
each generation.
Here is where the institutional church more often than not fails
miserably. We too often confuse the content of the message with
the container, the message with the medium. We get too easily
fixated upon one personally preferred form of how the gospel is
presented or worship is engaged in.
We think that whatever form worked for us in coming to the faith, or
growing in the faith, or worshipping God is the only or best form, or
even worse, we insist our preferences are the most Biblical
form. This is what drives the so called worship wars, and what is
at the root of the mainline churches horrific failure in evangelism and
discipleship.
We must be uncompromised in the content of our faith and the purpose of
our worship, but be willing to embrace ever new methods and forms for
how to express this content and purpose.
What works for you in evangelism, discipleship, or worship does not
necessarily work for this generation. There is nothing more holy
or Biblical about hymns over praise choruses, organs over guitars,
sanctuaries over coffee houses, doctrinal proclamation over open
dialogue in presenting the gospel.
If this congregation is going to reclaim an effective proclamation of
the gospel in the 21st century, we must be willing to reframe our
worship, ministry, and evangelism into a language and form that
connects with the typical unsaved, un-churched or de-churched person
living outside the walls of our museum Christianity, and who often sees
what we do as boring, or irrelevant, or untrue at best, and flat out
destructive as worst.
So the question, the billion dollar question, the
determining-our-future-as-to-growth-or-closing our-doors-for-good
question to each of you is this: Are you willing to give up your
personal preferences as to how we do worship, ministry, evangelize, and
disciple for the sake of what is most effective in reaching the lost,
lonely, neglected and hurting in Dubuque?
Now this is one of those
at-the-risk-of-having-a-very-short-tenure-as-your-pastor statements,
but unless the majority of you are willing to choose effective outreach
over personal preference than this congregation will not grow.
So to help us begin to understand better just what is the culture like
outside our doors, what are the questions they are asking, and what are
some of the ways we need to reframe the external form of the unchanging
gospel to connect with this generation., we are going to explore a
brief and broad overview of what is called our
“post-everything” generation.
And I do mean very brief and broad as to go into too much depth on this
topic would turn this into an academic lecture instead of
teaching/equipping sermon. But I do strongly encourage you to do
more study on this topic on your own.
Many theologians, and astute studiers of our North America culture, use
terms like these to describe us: post-denomination, post-Christian, and
post-Modern. We are going to briefly explore the main aspects of each
of these dynamics, and present some of the ramifications of these
realties for how we need to adjust the way we do ministry here at Third
Church to better reach this generation.
Post-denomination
What does this mean?
- Saying that our society is “post-denomination”
simply means that the majority of Christians do not define their
Christianity in relation to a particular denomination. In other words,
there is very little denominational loyalty. In fact, many see
denominations as harmful to authentic Christianity due to divisions,
arrogance, apathy to real world needs, liberalism, and
institutionalism.
What does it matter?
- We can no longer depend on denominational loyalty to gain new
members. There was a time when there were enough Presbyterians to
go around, and who moved around from city to city, that most churches
could depend on a steady influx of shifting Presbyterians to keep their
membership growing or at least stable. This is no longer the
case. The majority of people who move into a new area, or who are
looking for a new church home for any reason, do not choose a church
based on the denominationally affiliation. They simply shop
around until they find a church that meets the needs of whatever life
and spiritual stage they are in.
- Because many now see denominations as more harmful than good,
or associated with the mainline move toward liberalism, pushing our
denomination label too prominently can be barrier to having visitor
ever even walk through our doors in the first place.
- Because of these dynamics, while we absolutely do not need to
hide or be ashamed of or abandon our denominational affiliation, we
also should not overly emphasize it in those forums meant to attract
new visitors.
Post-Christian
Nation
What does this mean?
- To say that we are a post-Christian nation means many things,
but I will point out just two main dynamics of this reality now.
- One, we should no longer expect the culture at large to share
the values, morality, and priorities that we hold as Christians.
We all should do our part to fight for moral and ethical standards, and
the maintaining of religious freedom, and fighting on behalf of the
most vulnerable. But I do not believe in the whole movement
of trying to force Christianity upon a nation via legislation. It
is absurd to expect non-Christians void of the Holy Spirit to live by
Christian standards of morality. Obedience to Christ is a
supernatural ability. The path to societal transformation is the
proclamation of the gospel not the passing of legislation!
- Secondly, we can longer assume any degree of Biblical literacy
or awareness of the true gospel as we interact with the typical person
in our culture. There was a time when the majority of Americans
grew up in homes where at least the basics of the Bible, such as the
Bible stories of David and Goliath, ect where told, or kids heard them
in Sunday School. Even if this did not occur, references to the
Bible were used abundantly in literature and other forums, so that we
could assume a general degree of Biblical knowledge among the majority
of Americans. This is simply no longer the case. The majority of
Americans are Biblically illiterate even about the most common Bible
stories. The only familiarity comes from Hollywood movies.
What does it matter?
- This dynamic radically changes how we present the gospel.
As we talk with others about the Christian faith, we must do so with
this assumptions:
That the person has little or no knowledge of Bible
content or the basics of the true gospel
That the person very likely has many negative
stereotypes and misinformation about Christianity
That the person has legitimate questions that must
be honored such as human suffering, their own pain, other religions,
etc.
That the person has either tried church and found it
unhelpful or even more damaging or sees no reason to ever try for the
same reasons
Post-Modern
Before I present what are some of the main characteristics of a typical
“post-modern” person. Let me clarify that there
really is no typical or totally postmodern person. Postmodernism is
more of a very broad movement that our culture is undergoing, and
virtually every one of are affected to some degree or another by
postmodern values. You could say that the younger generation is perhaps
overall more postmodern than older ones, but there are some very
postmodern baby boomers and some very modern teenagers. So what I
am about to present are general traits. All of what I am about to
present comes out of an excellent article called “The Gospel and
Postmodernism,” by Ross P Rohde
http://www.facingthechallenge.org/rohde1.htm
What does this mean?
These traits would characterize someone influenced by
postmodernism:
- He does not appreciate the abuse of power or influence in the
name of religion
- He is sensitive to the hypocrisy of those who claim religious
truth
- He does not believe in absolute or exclusive truth
- He bristles at negative judgments made about different opinions
or lifestyles. Tolerance and diversity are key values
- Truth is what is true for a given local community and that
truth cannot be universally applied
- There is no one “Grand Narrative” that explains
reality
- He does not want to commit to anything too far ahead of time in
order to keep his options open in case something better comes along
- He does not believe that one religion has all the answers.
- He believes that there is something beyond what we normally
experience, and this “something more” is
spiritual
- Spirituality must have practical application in life
- He would be open to someone being his spiritual guide
What does it matter?
- We don’t be afraid of symbols, mystery and metaphors.
Boomers took out these traits,
the younger generations want them back.
- Avoid Christian jargon and being doctrinal when presenting the
gospel, emphasize a personal relationship with a living, powerful Jesus
Christ.
- Avoid coercion and being critical
Their view of
organized religion is one of abuse of power, force and coercion.
Ministry needs to come from relationship. To criticize other expression
of the Christian faith or other religions is highly counter productive.
- Be practical.
Postmodernists want
to hear practical solutions. How is Jesus affecting our marriage? How
is Jesus helping me overcome bitterness? How is Jesus helping me raise
my kids? What is Jesus leading me to do for my neighbors who have
needs?
- Be spiritual.
Postmodernists who
are looking for spirituality are probably much more open to personal
spiritual encounter than a non-Christian modernist would be.
- Look for an invitation to be a spiritual guide and for
discipleship relationships.
Friendship comes
first. In the process of friendship comes opportunity to become a
spiritual guide.
- Offer shalom.
Postmodernists are
looking for wholeness, particularly emotional and spiritual wholeness.
The biblical word for this is shalom. This is what Jesus is offering
his people. This would be a concept that postmodernists could warm up
to.
- Emphasize how Christianity meets real needs in the community
and the world.
Postmodernists want
solutions to real problems.
- Present the Bible as a spiritual book where we can encounter
Jesus.
The Bible is the
spiritual book where the postmodern Christian can encounter the Triune
God and abide in Jesus as they meditate and pray through scripture.
- Emphasize the community of believers.
Postmodernists like
community, they like relationship and they like events. They will also
tend to absorb the values of a community they identify with. See above.
- Build authentic relationships and present the personal,
powerful, irresistible Christ who is full of grace
Focusing on Jesus it
can lead to an encounter with the loving, gracious God of the universe.
To sum up everything we have explored in this sermon, here is the
bottom line. To be missional Christians, and for us to be a
missional congregation, we need to intentionally pursue relationships
with the unsaved, the un-churched, and the de-churched.
In the context of those relationships, we let our conversation be full
of grace, seasoned with salt, and we listen to their life story,
discover what questions they are asking, and when invited, we share the
story of Christ, primarily by sharing how Christ makes a difference in
our life right now, and we do so without any judgementalism, arrogance,
or coercion.
As a faith community, we must enter into authentic, transparent,
supportive, loving relationships with one another, and then invite
others into those Trinitarian small groups.
In our worship we emphasize transforming encounters with the living
God. In our evangelism we emphasize relationship, process oriented
models such as the Alpha.
And because we cannot expect people to come to us on their own, the
only way that this congregation has any hope of growing numerically is
for each of you to begin to invite, invite, invite people to our
worship services, Wednesday night ministries, and our bridge events
like the Old-Fashioned Community Christians Night.