Just Walk Across the Room
The Power of Story
(Week 3)
John 9:1-15
Please Note: This sermon
was adapted and used with permission from the “Just Walk Across
the Room Four-Week Experience” by Bill Hybels, produced by Willow
Creek and Zondervan Publishing who maintain all copyrights
The actual wording of this sermon is original, except where noted, and
draws on the points and ideas from Hybels’ transcript.
Introduction
We are on week three of a four-week sermon and Sunday School series
learning together how to “just walk across rooms.”
This metaphor captures Christ’s invitation to step out of our
comfort zones to walk across rooms, yards, offices, school hallways,
wherever God strategically places us, in order to connect with new
people to be used of God to plant one small seed of the gospel.
Before we jump into today’s discussion, let’s do a quick
review of last two week’s main points.
First, we must all the
Holy Spirit to empower us to:
1. Be willing to enter the Zone of the Unknown
2. Listen for the Spirit’s promptings
3. Just walk
Then, once we make a new
connection, we
1. Develop friendships
2. Discover stories
3. Discern next steps
In some of these new redemptive relationships you develop, there will
come the appropriate time that you discern that the next step is either
to tell them a small piece of your testimony, or you story, or to tell
them a simple form of how one becomes a Christian, or God’s
story. Today’s sermon teaches us one very practical,
effective way to tell God’s story and your story.
Let us pray…
Scripture reading…
“All I know,” said the once-blind man “is that once I
was blind, and now I see, and this Jesus is the one who healed
me!” The man was being asked to give an account of his
faith, and he simply gave his personal testimony, he told his
story. And in the model of evangelism that we are learning in
this series that is all you are being asked to do.
There have been many models of evangelism through the ages. Each
one was effective during its time. There was the apologetic era
when a primary way to share the gospel was through intellectual
arguments defending the reliability of Scripture. There was the
tract era when tracts addressing every possible age and question were
produced, and evangelism required discerning which best tract to hand
out. There was the bus ministry era when all across the country
churches brought old buses and bussed in teens and children.
There was the direct confrontation era when models such as
“Evangelism Explosion” were used.
While there is still a place for some aspects of each of these models,
the most effective model in our current culture is telling the gospel
and your testimony as story in the context of developing
relationships. This model is often called
“lifestyle,” or “relational” evangelism.
Telling the gospel as story is powerful for many reasons, but
I’ll mention just three
main reasons now.
First of all, stories are powerful;
which is our first point and the first blank of your insert.
Point
1: Stories Are Powerful!
Nothing engages our attention or impacts our imagination better than a
good story. So it is with sharing the good news, the gospel with
others. If we want to engage their attention and captivate their
imagination in a way that invites them to new life, learning how to
tell God’s and our story well is essential.
Secondly, evangelism through developing relationships and telling
God’s and our own story is the most effective model because we
live in what is called a “post-modern,”
“post-Christian” culture.
This simply means that we can no longer just appeal to the Bible as the
final authority when engaging people in our culture and expect them to
be persuaded as they do not give the Bible that kind of
credibility. Also, many in our society no longer embrace the
notion that there is just one version of the truth, but rather truth
and morality are situational and personal.
Thirdly, evangelism through relationships and story telling is the most
effective because that is the model that our triune God has been using
all along. When Father God wanted to rescue rebellious humanity,
what did He do? He took a walk, developed a close relationship
with people like Abraham and Moses, and through them with the nation of
Israel, and then he told His story of salvation to them and through
them. When it was Christ’s turn to take a redemptive walk
on planet earth what did He do? He developed close relationships
and told stories.
God could have chosen any number of formats to reveal Himself and His
redemptive plans. But He didn’t choose to give us an
instruction manual, a systematic theology, or a text book. He
gave us story. The Bible is 2/3rds story telling. So our second point is this:
Point
2: God Has a Story. Learn to Tell It Well!
So in this four-week study we are going through, we are learning some
very practical and simple ways to engage in evangelism. I hope,
pray, challenge, encourage, admonish you to begin or continue to
practice what you are learning. Please be a doer of the Word not
just a deceived and fruitless and therefore joyless hearer
only!
So here’s the process: you obeyed the gentle nudge or small voice
of the Holy Spirit and you’ve stepped out of your comfort zone
and made a connection with someone. The relationship continues to
develop and you are being curious about that person and hearing his or
her story. You’re discerning next steps and showing genuine
compassion toward them.
After a period of time, which may be weeks, months, even perhaps years,
you discern an opening to share either something from your story or
God’s story. How do you do it well? (The following
explanation of the “Bridge” is a direct quote from Pastor
Hybels’ transcript and all direct quotes are italicized)
“There’s a tried-and-true
way of explaining God’s story that you might consider committing
to memory, if you haven’t done so already. It’s
called “The Bridge”—many of you may be familiar with
it. The Bridge is quite simple, really, but it is a powerful way
to illustrate precisely what God—and his Son, Jesus
Christ—did for humankind.
The next time you find yourself in a
delicate conversation where the person you’re talking to really
does want to understand who God is and what he has done, grab a piece
of scratch paper, a cocktail napkin or whatever, and ask their
permission to sketch out this bridge. It’s an image they
won’t soon forget, I assure you. Here’s how it goes.
All right, for starters, we have to
establish the reality of two beings: people and God.] Between people
and God is a great chasm—a division that exists because of
people’s propensity to rebel against God’s way and go their
own way instead. The Bible calls this sin.”

“The dilemma people face is
that we want to get to God but know we can’t just leap over the
chasm. So we try exerting human effort, hoping we can get the
bridge built. In the end, we realize that all the human effort in
the world will never be enough to get us to the other side.”

“But thankfully, God
sympathized with our dilemma. And because he loved us so much, he
intervened so that we would have a means of getting close to him.
His solution was to choose his Son, Jesus, to serve as the
bridge.”

John 5:24 text:
“If you remember nothing else
about the bridge illustration, remember this: Christ came to earth to
be our bridge, and whoever makes the decision to cross the bridge will
live with God forever. The apostle John put it this way in John 5:24,
“I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who
sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over
from death to life” (NIV).
*****
Then, after you tell God’s salvation story, if you discern it is
the appropriate time to ask the person directly where he or she is as
to where they are at in accepting Christ, you can ask: “As you look at this illustration,
would you say that you are way over here to the left, meaning
you’re still firmly planted on this side of the cross and are
still wrestling with the idea of trusting God with your life?
Or would you say that
you’re just on the edge, you know, you’re almost ready to
start walking across the bridge that Christ’s work on the cross
built? In other words, if you were to stick an ‘X’ on
this picture representing how close you are to walking across the
bridge, where would you put it?”
*****
“Well, to wrap up this idea,
keep in mind that you may choose to commit a different illustration to
mind, but please land on one, clear explanation of who God is and what
he has done, so that when the time comes that someone sitting across
from you poses the question, you’re 100 percent ready to give a
thoughtful answer.
Whatever illustration you use, keep
in mind the types of words we looked at earlier. Humble words.
Healing words. Wise words. Gentle words. Grace-filled
words. Let your speech be well-seasoned with these things,
friends. You are not responsible for transforming a human heart
… that is the role of the Holy Spirit.
Your role, when prompted to do so, is
to open your mouth and give a tender, thoughtful, clear, and passionate
understanding of who God is, of what he’s done for each person
who ever has or ever will walk the planet. That’s all. Nothing
more, nothing less.”
Point
3: You Have a Story. Learn to Tell It Well!
So there you have it, one easy, engaging, and powerful way to tell
God’s story. But suppose you discern that the next step is
not to tell God’s story so directly yet, but rather to tell a
snapshot of your story. How can we do this is a manner that is
engaging and impacting?
You don’t need to have some dramatic conversion story in order to
be engaging. If you are an adopted child of God, every one of you
has a story to tell of being forgiven, changed, comforted, or empowered
by Christ. Every one of you has a story to tell, so let’s
learn how to tell it well. Which is our third point.
In our Bible passage for today, we have an example of the kind of
storytelling evangelism we are being equipped to use. “Look,” said the once-blind
man, “I don’t know about all your theological
questions. All I know is that once I was blind, and now I see,
and this Jesus is the one who healed me!”
The Pharisees tried to sidetrack the conversation away from the
central, convicting reality that Jesus had healed and saved the
man. They threw up all manner of smokescreens using seemingly
important theological questions to evade the real question of what were
they going to do with Jesus’ call to accept Him.
Often when we are given the opportunity to share the gospel, people
will engage in the same evasionary tactics. It is easy to become
intimidated by such questions. Indeed, it is the fear of not
knowing how to answer every possible question that might come up in
talking about the Bible, Christ, or gospel that keeps many from even
trying to share the gospel.
But how did the once-blind man respond? He said, “I really cannot answer all your
questions. They’re good questions. And most of them
probably do have good answers. But all I can tell you right now
is my story, my personal experience with Christ. I once was
blind, now I see. I was lived in shame, an outcast from society,
unwelcome in the temple to worship, and now I am free!”
It is just this kind of “before and after” model that we
can use in telling our story.
This before and after pattern can either be what your life was like
before you came to Christ in the first place and how your life was
changed by Christ. Or if you’ve always been a Christian, I
am sure there have been times of struggle in you life, and so you can
build your story around how Christ made the major difference in you
getting through that struggle.
Let’s look at some examples:
“I
was striving … but now I’m at peace.”
“I was self-destructive
… but now I’m healthy.”
“Guilty, but now
liberated.”
“Fear-stricken, but now
confident.”
“Despairing, but now
hopeful!”
“Your own before-and-after
doesn’t have to be more complicated than this, friends. It
just has to be simple, humble, succinct … and true.”
*****
Sharing our testimony can come in many different formats.
Sometimes we get to share a long version. Sometimes we simply
connect with another because the story God is writing with our life
connects with the story of somebody else.
But often, we only get to share a very short, but still very powerful,
snapshot of our story. To do this well, requires
preparation. So I am inviting and challenging every one of you to
write out a concise version of your story in a hundred words or
less.
Here’s one version of my story in 99 words:
“I grew up Catholic, but
never knew I could have a close relationship with a loving God.
Through my young adult years, I tried to find truth, power, pleasure,
and purpose through partying, studying religions, philosophy, and even
the occult. Shame, addictions, guilt, confusion, and hopelessness
consumed me. Then Christ got a hold of me! In Christ,
I’ve discovered truth, a heavenly Father who loves me
unconditionally, a power to be free from addictions, a purpose for
living doing things that really matter for eternity, and an inner peace
and joy that sustains me through all sorrow and struggles.”
Now if you want feedback on your story, go ahead and let me take a look
at it.
Now, there are effective ways to tell our story, and down right
obnoxious ways! So let’s look at four really bad ways to tell
your story so you can avoid them. (The following italicized section is
a direct quote from Hybels’ transcript)
“First,
faith stories derail when a Christ-follower just won’t shut
up. He oversupplies and just slaughters the demand. He goes
on and on and on … and even after the listener sends all sorts
of warning signals that disinterest and disdain have taken root, the
storyteller obliviously keeps chatting away.
Second, faith stories derail when a
Christ-follower is fuzzy about the story’s core theme. She
gets all tangled up in a dozen story lines and leaves her listener
frustrated, exhausted, and baffled.
Third, faith stories derail when a
Christ-follower lays out a string of four-syllable Christian-insider
words that no one outside the family of faith can understand.
Well, here, have a listen for yourself …”
“Fourth—and
finally—faith stories derail when … please hear me on this
… your faith story will derail, blow up, and leave a trail of
smoke a mile long if you play the superiority card. If you act like you
have your act perfectly together and the listener is somehow inferior
to you, you’re headed for the ditch … and fast, my
friend.”
Closing
So let’s continue to take walks that touch lives for eternity by
telling our story and God’s story well.